Keep Personal Information Private (At First)
- Don’t share your full address, financial details, or Social Security number.
- Be cautious with workplace information or your child’s school details.
Chat on the Platform First
- Use our built-in messaging system before moving to phone, text, or social media.
- Take your time getting to know the other person.
Watch for Red Flags
- Avoid users who:
- Ask for money or gifts
- Move too fast emotionally
- Make excuses not to meet or video chat
- Refuse to answer basic questions about themselves
Video Chat Before You Meet
- Always do a live video call before meeting in person.
- It helps confirm their identity and builds trust safel
Meet in Public for First Dates
- Choose a public place: a café, park, or busy restaurant.
- Tell a friend or family member where you’ll be — and check in with them.
- Always let one or two trusted people know where you’re going, who you’re meeting, and when you expect to be back.
- Check in before and after the date — safety is smart.
IMPORTANT: We never send emails, SMS, or any other notifications asking for your username and password information. If you have fallen victim to a scam, make sure you report it by contacting us.
Arrange Your Own Transportation
- Don’t accept rides to or from your date.
- Always have your own way home, just in case.
Trust Your Gut
- If something feels off, it probably is.
- You don’t owe anyone your time or attention if you feel uncomfortable.
Report Suspicious Behavior
- Use our Report or Block features.
- We take your safety seriously and will investigate concerns immediately.
Respect Yourself & Others
- Set your boundaries — and respect your matches.
- Love that’s worth building starts with mutual trust and care.
Safe. Respectful. Real.
You deserve a joyful, secure path to love. We’re here to help make that happen — one pop at a time.
